I am writing about how you don't need people to solve your problem forever, they just need help getting where they need to be.
I will compare to the Chinese proveb which says;
"teach someone how to catch a fish rather than giving them fish every time they need fish."
First and foremost, it is not right to live on handout or on the receiving end because even our Lord Jesus Christ said;
" it is more blessed to give than to receive" (Acts 20:35)
The most important lesson we can draw from this scripture is that in order to tap into the blessings of God, there is need to be of service through giving.
Secondly, when we depend on receiving only this makes us to be lazy because we simply depends on receiving only.
Thirdly, when we have received help once or twice this instilled spirit of giving also others. Freely you have received freely you give also. Inclusion helping brings empowerment and once or twice we need to be helped.
Maluba Lusaka Zambia